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June 15th, 2011

Big Girl and Big News

Posted by Nancy in Atlanta, Family, The District, Work, adventures, kids

BIG GIRL!
Simona turned five this week!

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We cannot believe that she is so big (and that we have been parents for so long)! Of course, as her parents, we cannot help but take every opportunity we can to brag, so here goes:

Simona is funny. Just ask Maria! No one can make Maria belly laugh the way Simona can with her silly dances and faces. Simona is also amazingly good at math. She can figure out basic multiplication problems (four times three, etc.) on her own, and she recently was able to tell us that half of sixty is thirty. She is learning some basic reading but is much better at it in German than in English. This not surprising, since we speak German here at home and since it is a much, much more phonetic language than English. Simona also has a kind heart and overall is quite empathetic. She is creative, artistic, and far more graceful and girly than I’ve ever been. She balances this with a love for swimming, bike riding, digging, and climbing. We delight in watching her grow into her own person.

(Just so you don’t think that all of the preceding praise is made up, I will throw in the honest truth: she can be harsh with her little brother, sometimes lies to avoid getting in trouble (bad move!), and doesn’t quite yet get the nuance between being proud and excited vs. being proud and boastful. But she tries so hard to please us and to be a “good person.”)

We celebrated her fifth birthday twice. The first event was a pool party on Saturday at our apartment pool.


Simona had three friends from the neighborhood and four from her preschool, all of whom had a blast splashing and swimming. Opa, Papa, and Mama were on lifeguard duty outside while Oma was inside with Maria (and on potty duty). Between swimming, lunch, and cake, the party was over before we knew it!

Her second party took place on Sunday, her actual birthday, in “Berbree City,” as Andreas calls Oma and Opas house. Opa took the kids swimming and kayaking in their pool (yes, he put the kayak in the pool. . .) and then went on a bike ride to the elementary school playground. Simona got her requested meal of “hamburgers and mac-n-cheese,” supplemented by some tolerable green beans, followed by presents and ice cream cake. Sounds like a successful day by any 5-year-old’s standards, I’d say!

BIG NEWS
Our big news is that . . . we finally know where we’ll be moving! We had planned on “knowing” by graduation, but graduation came and went back in May. Lest you think Caleb was dragging his feet in the job search process, let me assure you: He was not. He spent many, many hours over the past year drinking gallons of coffee at various “meet for coffee” networking meetings throughout the Atlanta area. I think he knows every individual who has ever been even tangentially involved in the real estate industry in this city.

Along the way, we learned that a job search like this can be a bit of a geography bee. There were MANY places we considered moving during this job hunt process. Some of these were serious considerations, complete with actual interviews or job offers, Google map geography lessons, elementary school research, etc. Others ended up being long-shot scenarios– job postings to which Caleb deliberated applying, job leads that quickly dried up or ended up not being the right fit for us, etc.

A few of the cities we considered:
- Piscataway, New Jersey
- New Delhi, India (yes, the country!)
- San Antonio, Texas
- San Francisco, California
- Chicago, Illinois
- Birmingham, Alabama
- Charleston, South Carolina
- Charlotte, North Carolina
- Boston, Massachusetts
- Hanover, New Hampshire
- McLean, Virginia (near Dulles Airport)
- Baltimore, Maryland
- Atlanta, Georgia

But in the end, we are moving right back where we started: Washington, DC! Caleb has accepted a job in Baltimore, Maryland. We have been deliberating whether to move to Baltimore or DC, but for a variety of reasons, we have decided that at this point, DC makes more sense for us. We are very open to the possibility that the commute will be too much, so we plan to reconsider our situation after 6-12 months. In the meantime, however, we are excited to return to the District!!

We will be moving out of our apartment here in about 1 week and will spend time in Germany before beginning our next adventure: Round 2 in the Nation’s Capitol!

June 6th, 2011

A party in the USA

Posted by Nancy in Family, The District, kids

When Simona was first born, we had the idea to try to get a picture of her (and of all subsequent children) at the state border sign at each new state she (they) visited.

At times, getting these pictures has meant going to great lengths, braving seedy industrial areas or making a 20-minute detour just to get the photo taken. And sadly, we’ve missed a few state pictures along the way, which just means we’ll have to re-visit those at some point.

However, it’s been a fun way to document our kids’ travels. So without further ado, I present the states our kids have visited (or in which they’ve lived), in alphabetical order:

1. Alabama

2. Arkansas

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3. Connecticut

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*Simona had been to Connecticut once before this, but I was not able to get her picture on that trip*

4. Delaware

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*Andreas has also been to Delaware, but we have not gotten his picture at a state sign yet.*

5. Georgia


*Obviously, Maria has been to Georgia, despite the lack of a picture. . . *

6. Illinois

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7. Indiana

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8. Iowa

9. Kansas

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10. Kentucky

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11. Maine

12. Maryland

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*I’m going to have to search our photo archives a little more for Andreas’s Maryland picture. . . for now, please take my word that he has spent A LOT of time in Maryland.*

13. Massachusetts

14. Minnesota
*We flew in and out of Minneapolis and didn’t see a state sign on our drive up to Longville, so these had to suffice for Simona:

15. Mississippi

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16. Missouri

17. New Hampshire

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*Yet another state which Andreas has visited but for which a picture is lacking. . . *

18. New Jersey


*The first picture is of Simona pointing to the NJ Turnpike on the map at a rest center. . . getting the “Welcome To” picture is nearly impossible on that turnpike, so Andreas’s picture is of lesser quality here, too. Believe me, I have had a flat tire with him in a pack-n-play on the side of the highway in NJ. I’d say that counts as having been there!*

19. New York

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*Yet again, Andreas does not have photographic evidence of being welcomed to the Empire State, but his attendance at Tante KK and Onkel Mike’s wedding and graduation affirm that he’s been. . .*

20. North Carolina

21. Ohio

22. Oklahoma

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23. Oregon
*Sadly, we had to choose between catching our return flight or getting our picture at the “Welcome to Oregon” sign at the airport. Andreas and Simona definitely attended Tante Janice & Onkel Gus’s wedding, and we’ll definitely all need to return to get that photo (not to mention visit Tante J & Onkel Gus!).*

24. Pennsylvania

25. Rhode Island

26. South Carolina

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27. Tennessee

28. Virginia

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29. Washington, D.C.

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30. West Virginia

31. Wisconsin
*The last shall be first! Maria beat both of her older siblings to this one!*

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TOTALS, in case you are keeping score:
Simona- 30
Andreas- 28
Maria- 5
(and for good measure, Nancy- 45, Caleb- 41).

**PLEASE NOTE** that this is out of 51. . . we can’t omit DC, the land of two of our children’s births. . .

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